Clearly, YOU MUST MAKE SOME CHANGES. Letting things remain as they are will lead to stagnation. On the other hand, you must be careful that the changes you make will bring the THINGS THAT YOU REALLY WANT. For example, if you accept a new job only because it brings more money, but you must sacrifice other benefits of your current life style, then you may find afterward that the increase in income was not worth the sacrifices. If you are not honest with yourself or if you place too much value on things that are really of secondary importance, then you will make the wrong decision. Your responsibilities are probably similar to those of most people: to family members, to pay the bills, etc. Underlying the changes in your life and the decisions you must make is a change in your values and attitudes towards life. You are now able to see your life from a broader perspective and you seek greater meaningfulness in your life.
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